Talk:Takamiya/@comment-193.115.93.20-20200806180149

Takamiya and her other friend got called out for their misbehavior, rightfully so. Had she not confronted them at anytime, they would have kept on misbehaving and causing chaos everywhere and to innocent people. So it's good that she told them off, though I disagree with the death threat that she gave them, that's taking it too far.

I read some YouTube comments saying things like, "They got off easy." "I was disappointed at the end where she didn't beat the f out of them." "She should have beaten them up." "They deserve more than just that." Etc. It's really unfortunate to me, at least, how some people say these things. It just goes to show what their mindset is like and how they would otherwise have dealt with a similar situation in real life, which I completely am against such mindsets. You don't and shouldn't get to put your hands on someone else unless you have a valid reason for doing so, e;g: Self-defense. If the bullies aren't trying to physically hurt you, then you too shouldn't physically hurt them either, otherwise that is just wrong. There is no need to, especially if shouting at them is enough to stop their wrongdoing and misbehavior, you don't need to take it a step further and physically assault them, especially if the bullies aren't showing any signs that they are trying to attack you. You would be in the wrong for doing so otherwise. What's your justification for doing so? "I had to teach them a lesson?" "They had it coming to them?" "They deserve it?" "It's the only way to put a stop to them?" Etc. I'm sure that there are plenty of excuses to try to justify your wrongdoing. Say what you want, think what you want, justify it however you want. It will not excuse your actions taken against the bullies ever. The only real reason why you would otherwise do so isn't because of justice, but more because of ego. Of self-satisfaction to cause physical injury to them. It's because of revenge. You feel a desire to hurt them because they hurt you, but usually when people get revenge, they typically end up hurting the perpetrators more so than how much they hurt you. This isn't ok. At least make it proportionate to the same level of hurt that they caused you, not go above and beyond unnecessarily. Which for an instance as such with this Anime, She didn't physically cause any harm to them, but merely threatened them and scared them. She did the right thing. There was no need to assault them. If you do so otherwise and not for self defense purposes, well...

Thankfully, there were other YouTube comments that repelled these ones. "She didn't need to beat them up." "What she did was enough. She doesn't need to hurt them." "No, she did the right thing." Although I don't remember perfectly what the comments said exactly, because unfortunately, it seems that there were a few more on the opposite side than on the more common sense side. Which makes me think that people seem to desire fighting or hitting each other, even when it's unnecessary and trying to hide behind justifications and whatnot. Truly unfortunate. It's why I've been questioning exactly how kind are we really and do we really want to avoid or lower violence? Because it seems to me that the people with the previous mindset seem to prefer to use violence to solve their issues, even when it isn't needed, but in their mind they'll think that they need to use it. Thankfully, there are some sane people in this world who otherwise wouldn't use violence unless for defending yourself obviously.

So that means that the people who would use violence would have most likely physically hurt those bullies even though they are just standing there and not trying to attack you first, therefore you are the aggressor initiating the fight, not the bullies, therefore you are most definitely in the wrong here. Oh and another justification they would say is "They brought it onto themselves. " Umm, no? Not really. You are just the one whose choosing to bring it onto them. They're just standing there and you went ahead and started to attack them without first being provoked by them. You see? You attacked them for no reasons but your own. You didn't defend yourself, that's not how it works I'm afraid. Just because you are very angry with someone does not give you any rights to lay a single hand onto them without first being provoked by them. If they try to hurt you first, only then you can defend yourself and fight back. Also, don't keep on hitting them once they are down, you have stunned the threat, there's no need to jump on top of them and continue hitting them. Also, if they try to back away from you during the fight, don't keep going after them and hitting them either, that's just you letting out all your anger onto them, which again isn't right. If they stop and try to go away, you need to stop yourself and back away as well and let them go. Seems like these people don't know any of this, how unfortunate...

Luckily and thankfully, there are people who actually know how to deal with these sorts of situations the right way. These people would have most likely done a similar thing as how She dealt with them, minus the death threat of course. They would only defend themselves and fight back only if they are being provoked by the bullies and they try to hurt you. These people know what the right thing is to do. Not over do it unnecessarily like the above. But adjust to certain situations correctly. These people have proper common sense and the right attitude and behavior when it comes to dealing with situations such as these. They don't just go around and beat up people they hate, such as bullies just because the bullies did some no good things to you or whatever. No. You confront the bullies and call out their poor behavior, if they are passive, you don't hurt them, you too remain passive. If they attempt to harm you, you respond and defend yourself until the threat ceases. It's logic. You match their response, not go against it. Bullies passive, so are you. Bullies attacking, you are defending and attacking back. You see? This is the right way to handle things, not needlessly hurting them and overdoing it. Again, just because you are mad at them doesn't give you the rights to physically harm them if they aren't or haven't tried to harm you first. You will be in the wrong for doing so otherwise.

Anyway, I just wrote all of this down onto here because I am quite frustrated and annoyed at those YouTube comments saying those things. Because those people condone using violence even if it's unnecessary to use it and it's just very very bad to me. *Sigh* Well thankfully there are at least other people who think the opposite way, like me. But not just me, people who teach fighting know about the proper rules as well, which is what I'm basing my thoughts on. Hopefully we outnumber them, that way there is no needless fights and violence happening around the world, thus reducing violence, therefore should be a good thing. Isn't that what people want? Less violence? Surely? I hope so, life's hard as it is, you know? Let's make each other's lives less harder by being less violent toward one another, but also using violence only if necessary for defending yourself or others from any other violence. Not just because you hate that one person and simply just want to hurt them. That's wrong and it increases violence because you needlessly used it even though there was no need to use it. Why take the violent route when you could choose the less violent and more peaceful route? So try to avoid using violence whenever and as much as you can. Also use it only if absolutely necessary for defending yourself or others. This way, we effectively reduce violence around the world, which should be a really good thing. Whenever someone uses violence, violence increases for the time it's being used and stops and reduces when not in use. Hopefully you use it for the right and practical reasons, such as self-defense. So let's try reducing our violent tendencies, shall we? Hopefully we can succeed... *Sigh* T.T'

P.S. I'm sorry for this long wall of text. I was just typing down my own thoughts. If you read it all up to here then congratulations! You've got some determination in yourself! If you have any other thoughts that you'd like to add, you can make a reply comment to this one. ^_^'

Have a nice day/night. Because the more happier people there are in this world, we increase the amount of overall happines in this world, which is for the better for all of us! So do have a nice time okay? For real... I'm not joking, I'm serious... I know it's easier said than done but, we must try. We've got to try! For ourselves, for our family and friends and for our communities. If we're all happier and have a much more positive and peaceful mindset, the better everything will hopefully be! Just think about how cool that really is! It's such a very relieving feeling and sensation. Like, you'll probably feel much more relaxed and much more calmer. You might have better control of your own mind, behavior and habits. It's just a very extremely pleasant feeling, you know? So let's try being more happier whenever we can, well, you could try start being happy now even, unless you need sleep of course, you can always wait until morning. But do try doing the things that make you happy, surely there is at least one thing you know you enjoy doing or whatever? Let yourself be happy! But if you have any mental iillnesses you're probably shaking your head or rolling your eyes at me like "Ugh, really? How many times do people need to keep saying these things?" Or something like that anyhow. Well, you know about choice, right? How we are responsible for our own choices? Now your probably thinking "People don't choose to have Depression or Anxiety or whatever, we're not like, "Oh, i think today I feel like having [insert illness here] and to suffer all day every day! Yeah, that's great!" NO! that's not how it works author person!" Don't worry, I know I know. You know, I too suffer from quite a few mental illnesses myself, like Depression and Anxiety. I have visited the GP to have them evaluate my health and it's been confirmed that I do suffer from these mental ailments. However, I never have been referred to a psychologist or therapist. I just stopped visiting. But I'm doing, well... I'm still alive, so that's pretty good, I-I guess...? Ok well, I'm not doing that good actually to be honest. It sure isn't fun when I over think about things. Very exhausting really, but it's just so hard to stop over analysing everything! I usually give in to my thoughts and end up spending either hours or days even, researching all these things and trying to form an understanding of it all. Goodness it's madness! But at the same time, I feel like it helps me form my thoughts and ideas on things so, it's not all too bad I suppose. But for me what happens is that when a certain thought pops into my mind, I'll have a very hard time trying to resist it. I try to distract myself doing other things but, the thoughts in my head still linger and I just can't stop thinking about it. I can't concentrate on anything but those pesky thoughts that I eventually, even though I shouldn't but, I give in to the thoughts. I succumb to them and I end up, depending on what these thoughts are, spending either a few hours or a full day or even if I'm unlucky, days, weeks or even freaking months! It really isn't fun at all, but I got to try better at controlling them, I know that. I just hope that one day I can...

Ok, sorry, where was I? Oh, right! Choices. Now, although you don't choose these mental illnesses, I think that you can still choose what actions you take, just that now with the illnesses it feels so much harder for you. I know that, I really, really do. Like with depression for example. Depression is really good at keeping you in bed, or making you feel like you don't have much energy to do things. Don't worry, I know. I'm currently suffering these things too. Though I've been able to get myself out of bed so, yay! But, before that, I too was lying in bed for all day. I did it quite a lot I think or quite a few times anyway. I know what it's like. That's something depression makes us do I guess, but worry not, for you too can start getting out of bed too. I think that what worked for me was looking forward to something you might enjoy. For me, I enjoy coffees in the morning and plus the morning sun. But if you wake up later on like at 11 or 12, it's still good to get up then too. Also the weather won't always be sunny, but maybe you like cold weather instead? But anyway, try to find one thing you like and get up from bed so you can engage with it and enjoy it. Find a reason to get up from bed. I won't know what your reason will be, so you'll have to figure it out for yourself, but you can hopefully ask your family and friends for help if you are feeling stuck. Also, researching my symptoms and how to cope with them helps too. So you could search for, how to get up from bed in the mornings and how to go to bed, stuff like that. The internet can hopefully provide helpful information for you. Another thing in case you don't know but, there is this one Youtuber by the name of Katie Morton, I think that's how you spell it? Anyway, she's a professional working therapist who owns a YouTube account and has videos on there which could hopefully help you out if you are curious.

But back to choices. Now, whenever you feel unhappy, try to choose doing something besides laying in your bed, because if you do something else, maybe it could help you just a bit.

But that's it for now! For real, I am very sorry for this very massive long wall of text. But hopefully you found all of this interesting to read or useful or whatever. If you made it this far, then well done, again! You still had that determination within you, or some of it, maybe it was starting to deplete, or it's almost completely depleted by this point? Again, if you wish to add any extra thoughts, be sure to reply to this insanely large comment. The choice is yours. ^_<'

Well, bye~ ^_^'