Talk:Takamiya/@comment-193.115.93.20-20200806180149/@comment-39.109.203.141-20200808160618

Too long to read,but I think I got your message,so here is my argument,as a former victim of bulles: Sadly,I must called you out for your naive-ness...Yes,you can say something along the line of "if you fight back,you will just be like them"...But in real life,bullies have absolutely no regards to rules and regulations...The only thing that deters them from bullying,is a bigger force against theirs,so tell them the rules for all you want,tell them the consequences for all you want...They will not give a single shit about any of them,and will continue to hurt those whom they want to hurt,who are typically those whom they deemed too weak to fight back(key word)...So in order to stop a bully from hurting you,too bad,you gotta fight back,threaten their lives...That is the only way known to deter them...Those who bullied me,they even dare to actively bang the tables as drums(musical instrument) as they hums the movie theme of "Wong Fei Hong" at the presence of the teacher,intentionally disrupt the lesson,as they know full well that said teacher is physically too weak to get them...It is only when the Discipline Mistress comes in,then they stopped,temporarily...Their rowdy behavior still continues after the Discipline Mistress in physically gone,so from here,I believe you can agree that those trouble-makers have no regards to the School Rules,and I haven't even touch on the bullying part...Because I used to firmly believe on the "if you fight back,you will just be like them" mentality,so I will be punished as well if I snitch on them,I refused to fight back,or should I say,defend myself from the physical assault,which resulted in me getting assaulted for years...The "fighting back" includes pushing the bullies back,mind you,not punching or kicking,and that is liable to have me get punished as well,and hence the refusal of "fighting" back,making me an easy target...It is when I showed signs of intending to fight back,as I got fed up with the assaults,that the bullying starts to drop,so I believe this is enough to tell you that whether you like it or not,at times,violence is the only option,when you are dealing with ruthless bullies who have absolutely no regards to others well-being...Takamiya and her bully-mates may be an extreme case,but we can expect something around like theirs in real life,depending on how ruthless and sorry(how they actually feel about themselves but choose not to do something about themselves but blame others for their sorry self instead) they are...